Dating apps optimize for matches.
We optimize for the right one.

A Geneva-based matchmaking practice built by a psychologist. Start with a free 5-minute compatibility assessment — get a personal report, no swiping required.

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Your report
Emotional availability: high

You're ready to be chosen deliberately — here's what that means for you.

FSP-registered psychologist · Geneva · confidential by design
How it works

Three steps, no swiping, no inbox full of strangers.

01

Take the assessment

A short, self-service online assessment — five minutes, free, done from your phone. No profile to build, no photos to upload yet.

02

Get your personal report

An automatic, personalized report sent straight to your inbox — where you stand on readiness, communication, and emotional availability.

03

Choose your next step — or don't

Your report is yours either way. If you want to go further: book a 1:1 Clarity session, or join the Introductions waitlist so we actively look for a match on your behalf. Nothing is charged, and nothing is added to any candidate pool, unless you choose to.

What's on offer

Three ways to use this — pick as far as you want to go.

Taking the assessment doesn't sign you up for anything. Your information only becomes part of an active matching pool if you explicitly choose the Introductions option below.

Free

The Assessment

A 5-minute self-assessment and a personal report by email. No cost, no obligation, no data shared or pooled — this step is entirely for you.

Paid

Clarity Session

A private 1:1 debrief with Diana, a psychologist — what your report means, what's been getting in the way, and whether you're ready to be introduced to someone. Booked in small batches, at her pace.

Paid

Introductions

Join the waitlist to be actively matched. This is the only step where your information joins the candidate pool — and only after your explicit consent. Currently open as a waitlist while we test demand in Geneva.

Why this, not another app

Built on psychology. Not on engagement metrics.

Dating apps
  • Optimize for time spent swiping
  • Anyone can message anyone
  • No idea if either of you is actually ready
  • You do all the filtering yourself
Choose Each Other
  • Optimizes for one good outcome, not more swipes
  • Starts with a real psychological assessment
  • Tells you honestly where you stand, first
  • A psychologist does the filtering with you
Diana Balaias, psychologist and founder of Choose Each Other
Your matchmaker

Diana Balaias

Psychologist (FSP member) specializing in couple therapy and clinical sexology. She's spent years helping couples understand what actually makes a relationship work — this is that same expertise, applied before the first date instead of after the wedding.

Master's in Psychology, Cognitive-Behavioural Interventions · Specialization in Couple Therapy & Clinical Sexology · English / Portuguese

Ready to find out where you stand?

Free, five minutes, straight to your inbox.

Take the free assessment →
Questions

Before you start

Is this therapy?

No. The assessment and reports are self-development tools built on psychological principles — not a clinical or diagnostic service. If a Clarity session raises something better suited to therapy, Diana will tell you directly.

Is my data private?

Yes. Your responses are handled confidentially and are never shared without your consent. [Final privacy policy and consent language pending legal review.]

What happens after the assessment?

You get a free personal report by email. From there, you can choose to book a paid Clarity session (a full 1:1 debrief) or join the Introductions waitlist — no pressure either way.

Will taking the assessment sign me up for anything?

No. The free assessment and report are just for you. Your information is only added to the candidate pool if you separately choose to join the Introductions waitlist — that's a deliberate, explicit step, not something that happens automatically.

Do I need to be based in Geneva?

The assessment is open to anyone. Clarity sessions and Introductions are currently focused on the Geneva area while we test demand — [expansion plans TBD].